If you want to make a guy like you, you need to know exactly what to do.
Unfortunately, if you’re trying to make him like you, you’re already starting out behind the eight ball.
Why? Well, if you have to make him like you – that means that you think he’s not that interested in you. If he was, you wouldn’t have to MAKE him like you – you could just let things progress naturally.
However, all hope is not lost. If you’re really interested in a guy and you want to grab his attention and make him into you, there are a bunch of things you can do.
Let’s talk about the best ways to get a guy into you.
Get Him To Open Up With His Favorite Subjects
In order for emotional intimacy to grow between two people, there needs to be a connection. And in order for that to happen, they need to connect and find some chemistry during a conversation.
So what’s the best way to connect with a guy during a conversation when you’re not sure whether he likes you or not?
Simple: talk about the things that he’s passionate about.
When you start a conversation with him about the things he’s passionate about, the things he loves to talk about, the things that light him up inside – he can’t help but connect with you.
Everyone loves to talk about their favorite hobbies and passions. It’s why you can catch yourself rambling about your favorite makeup designer or your favorite TV show when you see a glazed look on the other person’s face – you literally can’t help it.
So when you’re talking to him, ask him about the things he loves. Ask him about his hobbies, his passions, the things that he does all the time just because he likes to do them.
When you do that, his connection to the conversation (and therefore to you) skyrockets, and he can’t help but feel closer and more emotionally intimate with you – which will make him want to chase after you and be with you.
Flirting With Him Is Very Helpful
I’m going to share a secret with you about guys that’s very illuminating: a lot of guys are really, really dense.
There are tons of guys out there who couldn’t tell if a woman was interested if she was singing him a love sonnet and handing him a dozen roses.
So if you think he’s not interested in you, he might just not realize that you’re interested in him.
What’s the best way to get yourself on his radar and perk up his interest? Flirt with him!
Body contact goes a long way towards igniting that “aha” moment in his head and making him realize that you’re into him.
If you’re too subtle, there’s a chance that he won’t realize you’re even interested and be oblivious to your crush.
Focus On Being In A Good Mood Around Him
The most important thing when it comes to making someone like you is your mood.
It’s not what you say, it’s not how you look, and it’s definitely not what you do with him.
It’s your mood – your overall vibe. It’s how it FEELS to be around you, how it feels to him when he’s with you.
If you’re in a bad mood, or if you’re anxious because you’re worried that he’s not really interested in you, he’s going to be able to feel that.
And that’s going to make him feel anxious, uncomfortable, and like he’s walking on eggshells – exactly the OPPOSITE of how you want him to feel.
People start to like other people because it feels good to be around them. If he doesn’t feel good when he’s around you, he’s not going to be interested in going out with you.
But if you focus on being in a relaxed, comfortable, amazing mood when you’re around him, it makes him feel relaxed, comfortable, and amazing too.
In fact, it makes him feel so good that he wants to be around you even more – which is the bedrock for him starting to like you and wanting to go out with you.
So that’s it! Those are 3 of the best ways to make a guy like you. Let me know what you think in the comments!