by Guest Blogger Angela Jarvis
I wish I could tell you that if you follow everything I am about to say then you will be able to get any girl you want. Unfortunately, that is not how this works. It is ultimately all on you to take the advice I am about to give you or keep going with what you are doing. This is based on my experience and from what other girls have told me. So brace yourself for what is to come, enjoy!
1. Look nice
With those two words I do not mean you have to look like the rock. Just be fit. Granted women do like all sorts of men in every shape and size but the chances of you getting women would be higher if you just stayed in shape. Make sure that you have great personal hygiene. This means keeping your teeth brushed, your facial hair trimmed and tamed, showering daily, etc… If you know what time you see the girl you like at a certain time everyday carry mints or some gum so when you run into her your mouth won’t smell like the meal you just chowed down. Smelling nice also has a huge impact on women. Walking past a guy and smelling his strong cologne that smell will stick with me. If you converse with a girl daily and wear the cologne daily then the chances of the girl thinking about you the next time she smells your cologne are greater.
Looking nice also means the way you dress. It is fine to wear your nerdy star-wars t-shirt and jeans but make sure they are clean with no stains. If you really want to make an impression find your own sense of style such as, a polo, jeans, and converse might be your style or, hoodie khakis with tennis shoes that is fine. Just make sure they are hole free and you look nice before you leave the house. Some guys like to dress like this and they feel confident about their looks.
2. Be yourself
I know this sounds super clique but it is true. Being yourself is the most important key into getting a girl to like you. Act like your normal self. No one likes that self-absorbed person who always talks about himself. At the same time have confidence in the person you are today. If the girl you are going after cannot accept that then she probably isn’t the right girl for you and that is okay. Act appropriate in the situation you are in.Which was not a great idea because prom ended up being a mess; however, Pearl did enjoy her night.
A very important thing to do is make sure the girl has a sense of humor and laughs at your jokes. If you cannot make a girl laugh then either she has a really dry sense of humor or there is something wrong with her. Laughter is definitely the key because that shows the girl that she can stick around you longer.
3. Keep her guessing
To keep her attention, try to be spontaneous when you can. Be different in the positive way. Stand out from the crowd. Take notes if you watch a movie like Hitch or any movie where there is a date going on take notes on where they go and how spontaneous it is. Maybe even replicate it if you can. Instead of treating her to a nice dinner and a movie maybe you go ice skating or bowling. Think of unique things to do with the girl because she might get bored of doing the same things. This is a good change from the normal date nights that you could possibly have.